a look inside my world.

                      back to life. 

A vibrant mix of day-to-day moments, heartfelt reflections, and inspiring stories from those in my life and those I support whole-heartedly. This side captures my journey through life’s everything, offering you a window into my world, my connections, and my candid thoughts. In my journey back to life, I love sharing the people, places, and creations that bring light into my days, and I hope they’ll inspire you too.

Life after loss doesn’t end, it shifts, grows, and even surprises us.

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Life after loss doesn’t end, it shifts, grows, and even surprises us. 〰️

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The Quiet Work of Healing: When Creativity, Trauma, and Purpose Intertwine

When Julia from Refined Media 716 asked to share my story, I didn’t realize how much it would make me pause and look at where I’ve been and who I’m still becoming.

This piece touches the parts of healing that don’t always have words. The quiet moments between who you were and who you’re learning to be. The ache of loss that somehow teaches you how to love differently — maybe even more deeply.

My Second Half Self has always been about that space, the in-between. The rebuilding. The rediscovering of yourself when life as you knew it is gone.

I’m honored to have this story told through such an intentional lens — one that reminds us that healing and creation are not separate… they’re how we find our way home.

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Coming Back to Life

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When Your Mind Stops & Your Hands Keep Going

Sometimes the quiet work of my hands says what my heart can’t. Between laundry, coffee, and sourdough stretch-and-folds, I’m learning how the smallest routines can anchor me — helping me find stillness, presence, and gratitude in this second half of life.

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Take a Break

After losing Will, life feels like a thousand shattered pieces I’m trying to glue back together. Some days I flounder, some days I fight—but I’m still here, still trying, still finding my way.

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TO BE OR NOT TO BE…..MY FRIEND

My journey back to life is built on connection. This week, I honor Sophia Cosola, whose wisdom and friendship keep me grounded and inspired.

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The Unsinkable

Molly Brown didn’t just survive the Titanic — she lived her life unsinkable. Fearless in politics before women could vote. Generous to miners’ families and orphans. A reformer who stood against greed and injustice. This is that kind of second-half power — the part of life when you’ve been hit by the wave, but you rise anyway, steering toward a new purpose in the dark.

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The Art of Connection in a Life Split in Two

This is all about visuals, and first impressions. When I first saw the VizartInk booth at a Christmas Market, it caught the corner of my eye, and I made an immediate beeline to get a better look. I saw great line drawn pictures of military, the Seattle skyline, Van Goh’s Starry Night, first responders, so many pieces of art to look at, and so many different themes!!

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509 Unfiltered: A Podcast Must-Listen

When I’m lost for words. When I’m struggling to see what my purpose is, I honestly seek her out.  Jess, you may not know this: I look up to you.  You are one of my idols. To work in the environment you have, and to come out on the other side with more grit and grace and gumption than what you probably started out with so many years ago as a rookie police woman.   

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What We’re Sipping on This Month

My Second Half Self is about that exact thing: learning how to live again after unimaginable loss. And Wild Heart fits into that process more than I ever expected. It’s more than a product. It’s proof that good things can still be discovered—that there’s still flavor and fire to be found in the second half.

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Will’s Top 3 holidays were the 4th of July…

4th of July: “It’s the perfect celebration. BBQ, friends, family, and fireworks.” You get to eat really good food and hang out more with the friends who he was bonded with for life. “And you get to blow shit up”.

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Coming Back with 509 Unfiltered

The 509 Unfiltered is everything its name suggests—raw, real, and rooted in what actually matters. Jess brings on guests to talk about the good, the gritty, and the stuff most people shy away from. From highlighting small businesses that deserve the spotlight to diving into the messy conversations that shape small-town life, she’s not afraid to go there.

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